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04:24 PM . 28 February 2012
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10:51 AM . 22 February 2012

musingsofaliterati:

tell me why: dear gossip girl writers,

lostinexplanation:

you dared to dair. maybe you felt like you had to in order to keep chuck and blair apart for just a little bit. i don’t know. but do you see what came from daring to dair? you had the lowest ratings in all of gossip girl history. because you dared to dair, there was a BOYCOTT among your fans. you…

Here is what I am going to do.  You so obviously cared to tag this in my tag that is full of happiness, but I’m not going to tag it in yours.  First things first, you’re pissed because you’re a chair shipper?  Then you don’t need to tag this butthurt in the Dair tag because really you can spare us the millisecond of our lives when we scroll down our beautiful tag to see this.  Thank you.

Now onto your post.  You want to talk ratings?  We’ll talk ratings.  This entire season, ENTIRE SEASON, there has been a steady viewership, a linear trend if you will.  The seasons there was a giant dip in the ratings?  Season 2 and 3 where we KNEW Chair was together.  I’ll find the post I reblogged pertaining to ratings of Gossip Girl since season 1 if you don’t believe me.  So spare us the ‘lowest ratings in Gossip Girl history’ because it’s a bunch of hooplah.  And as Norman Buckley so happily stated ‘ratings have nothing to do with quality’.

You then go onto say that Dan and Blair have zero chemistry and they are forced together and that everyone sees it and hates it.  LOLS.  A) Chemistry is subjective.  Therefore you may say that Dair have no chemistry because you just don’t see it, like I don’t see chemistry between Derena or Chair.  B) Forced together you say?  The build up has been for five seasons.  I know you don’t believe it when we tell you it’s true, so here: Chair were the ones thrown together in episode 7 of the first season.  They had no build up whatsoever before then.  In fact Blair did not like Chuck at all, and then they have sex.  UHM……  Anyways the build up started later.  AFTER they had had sex.  Dan and Blair didn’t even KISS until the fourth season.  In season 1 they barely tolerated each other.  Season 2 DAN was the guy who gave her advice on her relationship with Chuck, and this continued on into season 3.  Season 4 we start to see them slide out of their first impressions of each other and just be themselves.  Two intelligent individuals who happen to share a lot of things in common.  There was build up.  

LOLS.  HAPPY COUPLES AREN’T AS INTERESTING?  Dan + Blair = Happiness.  They also equal witty banter, ACTUAL conversations, and pure and simple love.  You’re biased opinion of ‘daring to dair didnt work’ is absolute nonsense to be honest.  Just because it didn’t work for the fandom that you represent, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t work at all.  If I may be so bold as to get you to google the New York Magazine’s review of the last Gossip Girl episode?  THEY LOVED IT.  

They have written Blair as an independent person?  It sure as hell started out that way but as the series progressed Blair’s volatile relationship with Chuck ruined her.  She was always finding excuses for him, and trying to run back to him.  In fact season 4 when Blair was an intern, the reasoning behind it weren’t because she wanted to be a powerful woman on her own.  She wanted to be powerful enough for Chuck.  Her relationship with him started to become the only thing she could identify herself with.  ChuckandBlair BlairandChuck.  She was independent, crazy and selfish before her ridiculous relationship with Chuck.  She lost her identity with him and because she felt he was the only person in the entire world who could love her (READ he made her so ashamed of herself that she couldn’t believe anyone else could ever love her), she kept running back to Chuck.  Just as she’s been doing this whole season.  Then when she realizes FOR ONCE that someone else could love her Dan loves me for me, she jumps at the chance because for once in her love life she knows she hasn’t brought out the dark in anyone.  AND SHE CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT A MAN.  But you know what she CANNOT survive without?  A friend.  And that friend was Dan who just so happens to be of the opposite gender so you managed to twist your words around and paint Blair as a complete Mary Sue.  

In regards to Chair you haven’t listed valid reasons of why they belong together, other than that they are magic or w.e.  ALSO THE OTHER IS HAPPY IF ONE IS HAPPY?  Please.  Chuck sees that Blair has kissed Dan, and what does he do?  He goes and tries to sabotage Dan.  When it comes to Blair, Chuck is completely selfish. HE’s proved it time and time again.  And a couple isn’t perfection is one of them (Blair) feels the need to be on par with Chuck.  She feels she can never be good enough for him, and he fuels that insecurity.  It’s not perfection, its complete and total destruction.

Thank you for tagging this as Dair by the way, gave me the chance to vent(: 

Brilliant!

27 notes
10:05 PM . 20 February 2012

"Blair doesn’t deserve Chuck"

WTF is that? Girls are supposed to stand together. If your friend was in a relationship with a guy and he did the kind of things to her that Chuck did to Blair (during their whole time as a couple) and when she finally starts to move on a little bit would you say to her “you don’t deserve him”? I’m really gobsmacked right now. And disturbed.

I wonder if Chair fans agree with vintage ads like these as well? Maybe they still think it’s the early 20th century.

I wish the Chair fans would admit they only like Chuck and not Chuck and Blair.

And I hope Blair can rise above and become the strong woman she wants to be. She deserves to be.

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03:03 PM . 20 February 2012

Dair fans!

We have 100+ names on the Dair Fans Masterlist in 4 hours! Be added by liking or reblogging the original post.

If there are any mistakes or I miss you, please message me in my ask box and I’ll fix it.

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11:05 AM . 20 February 2012

The Dair Fans Masterlist

If I missed you, or made any mistakes, message me :)

Like or Reblog to be added

  1. dairling
  2. xburningdevilx
  3. misscoffeeandcigarettes
  4. dairandharmony
  5. minaviendha
  6. sailyoutotheshore
  7. ava-vada
  8. plausiblexdeniability
  9. thestelenakoala
  10. marlysa14
  11. pfunks
  12. a-taste-of-perfection
  13. qomoi
  14. lynsrae1
  15. brightbrowneyes
  16. sonic-me-sweetie
  17. glmzn
  18. hera621
  19. theprincessandpauper
  20. dairtolovesamcedes
  21. musingsofaliterati
  22. oleandersinmysky
  23. sinceimgoingtohell
  24. mixingwiththerain
  25. jembie
  26. oh-gossip
  27. asian-apparently
  28. supagirl
  29. inthesunwithzooey
  30. dairingprincess
  31. xoramy
  32. delairmonian
  33. ems23
  34. booklearned
  35. aqueenmab
  36. panemonfire
  37. sologirl00
  38. dontdairthegingerlover
  39. all-hail-dair
  40. the—dandy—lion
  41. uncoolguy
  42. bstromberg
  43. not-past-tense
  44. helenavp
  45. wikatiepedia
  46. dreams2life
  47. fangirling
  48. iamtherockshow
  49. toobaddiane
  50. nummygraphics
  51. bonmot-tossing
  52. sweetestinthegale
  53. tobieornottobie
  54. emmalovestv
  55. you-define-beauty
  56. wickedand-proud
  57. sweetbroloveit
  58. nowaternolight
  59. cabbagepatchbliss
  60. rika-loves-dair
  61. cla90
  62. loveisneverafairytale
  63. hooray4themadness
  64. excessive-waffles
  65. isabelle1356
  66. les-amants-maudits
  67. teampauperftw
  68. puresimpleheart
  69. carrionrockr
  70. lostinthoughtsaboutyou
  71. saverinftw
  72. steadymobbing
  73. lifeisgivingyousigns
  74. freakingziggystardust
  75. embracethemess
  76. 18demarzo
  77. lylyford
  78. karljr
  79. miss—fahrenheit
  80. mmecherry
  81. tellmewhatwouldmakeyouhappy
  82. emeraldcitydownt0wngirl
  83. leightonmeestersommer
  84. trustinfate
  85. kaorym
  86. dazzledvale
  87. beingmy-imperfect-self
  88. lovedair
  89. diiamondintherough
  90. dreamingisaluxury
  91. laureneb82
  92. anonymouscici
  93. caperucitaferoz
  94. argividanaides
  95. moonlight-dream
  96. and-then-i-dont-feel-so-bad
  97. pureandsimplelove
  98. farafiro1095
  99. itsalmostlikeloving
  100. chasitystar
  101. nindira
  102. thedandelioninspring
  103. you-have-me
  104. beautiful-ordinary
  105. brighterday-grace
  106. fudge-mental
  107. randomocity89
  108. moiramurpphyy
  109. f-queens
  110. royallyposhed
  111. ladycanary
  112. ilove-mykittycat
  113. killerclownsbleedglitter
  114. soffihardless
  115. allaboutdair
  116. rawkry
  117. glitter-riots
  118. dair4eva
  119. scarletglasses
  120. captivatedbylove2
  121. sodairing
  122. doe-eyed-beauty
  123. dairxoxo
  124. streamstwist
  125. dreamingofrain
  126. blair-waldorf-humphrey
  127. blainersland
  128. brolin-pendragonlord
  129. sacredraina
  130. leavie
  131. itstheladyf
  132. neonnoonsandswitchbladesmiles
  133. mendaciousangel
  134. danlovesmeforme
  135. maskmajora
  136. rebeccavis
  137. boyfriendandprettygirl
  138. yougotasecretsmile
  139. queenspencers
  140. donniert
  141. alluringcliche
  142. neo-cleo
  143. wheresmyronweasley
  144. dianabelle
  145. dreaming-is-believing-x
  146. santi722
  147. cristinka6
  148. rhaenyss
  149. seravia
  150. heya-all-the-way
  151. danwaldorf
  152. lailani
  153. tvdkol
  154. angstersonbrothers
  155. kattbri
  156. princessofnothingcharming
  157. mikelson
  158. ikeepdancinonmyown
  159. arrarrlikeapirate
  160. arsenicupcake
  161. auburnhairedtimelord
  162. kiwiniki
  163. hnngmiley
  164. dairingoriental
  165. intheseaofthesky
  166. playthefoxx
  167. d-archangel
  168. sugarloveshack
  169. arianna4president
  170. almostdreamer
  171. randomhlg
  172. aliaskate
  173. melooney-gordon
  174. findingremedy
  175. ezzerlynch
  176. plaid-shorts
  177. dair-is-the-rescue
  178. brookepenelopescott
  179. haimazing
  180. gothic-barbie
  181. sfelis
  182. superphildunphy
  183. lennie1984
  184. commesdesenfants
  185. petrova-doppelgangers
  186. buffypangel
  187. p0xsterbeck
  188. classicbrits
  189. mrssturgesss
  190. historia-regum
  191. honestlycastle
  192. ghaniatreides
  193. iwrotethissky
  194. sarahlucia-xoxo
  195. maesaur
  196. sarabrowncolorado
  197. klarolinefan01
  198. fiendfyres14 
  199. waterstars
  200. eatsleepbreathedair
  201. breakoutmiles
  202. thisisnecessary
  203. cocoagua
  204. justfloren
  205. tarynes
  206. whenhumphreymetwaldorf
  207. booknerd01
  208. podergatuno 
  209. gibberjabberbabble
  210. hittingrefresh
  211. melissavalentine
  212. tvlover2011
  213. talkingibberish
  214. itsnewtoyouandme
  215. bluemeowchids
  216. gossip-xoxo-girl
  217. passmethesugar
  218. danandsavannah
  219. that-is-nonsense
  220. shefadestoblack 
  221. dairtofallinlove
  222. lexieannmalfoy
  223. ohgoddair
  224. thedairessentials 
  225. walkthe7cs
  226. ilovethestew 
  227. klizzlefoshizzle 
  228. dairlingxoxo
  229. lunoboom 
  230. dairissoendgame
  231. ldbaby
  232. jaycz
  233. empty-space
  234. sonotinsane
  235. jayniehansen
  236. idairu2move
  237. c0nfettitisparad3 
  238. starrybillie
  239. xoxodair
  240. canyahearmemajortom
  241. lovely-hallows
  242. caffeinatedlife 
  243. staceyleeh
  244. lilienduft
  245. outofmyfuuuckingmind
  246. ohwakeupmaggie
  247. fabulousfrances
  248. the-darkmark
  249. zigzagvoyage
  250. hushed-bitch
  251. fakealotofhumaninteractions
  252. sictransitlaura
  253. air-head
  254. uknowwatimean
  255. prettyfits
  256. lizfanatic01
  257. onlyifyoudair
  258. acceptanceandlove
  259. justcomeas-you-are

If I missed you, or made any mistakes, message me :)

14 notes
06:18 PM . 07 January 2012

This show has really gotten to my head. I had a dream I was in GG and I rushed Blair and Chuck to the hospital after their car crash and then called Dan to come.

I need help.

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01:48 PM . 17 December 2011
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12:32 PM . 06 December 2011

My 2 favourite Gossip Girl characters have always been Dan and Blair. But I could never picture them together until mid season 4. Now they’re all I want to see together.

25 notes
01:27 PM . 05 December 2011

I’m a new Dair fan and I want to follow all the other Dair fans so please reblog so I can find all of you!